quotations about character
Character is centrality, the impossibility of being displaced or overset. A man should give us a sense of mass.
RALPH WALDO EMERSON
Essays
Character, like wine or cold tea in a bottle, takes its shape from the environment.
AUSTIN O'MALLEY
Keystones of Thought
The reasons which any man offers to you for his own conduct, betray his opinion of your character.
ARTHUR HELPS
Thoughts in the Cloister and the Crowd
There are often two characters of a man--that which is believed in by people in general, and that which he enjoys among his associates. It is supposed, but vainly, that the latter is always a more accurate approximation to the truth, whereas in reality it is often a part which he performs to admiration: while the former is the result of certain minute traits, certain inflexions of voice and countenance, which cannot be discussed, but are felt as it were instinctively by his domestics and by the outer world. The impressions arising from these slight circumstances he is able to efface from the minds of his constant companions, or from habit they have ceased to observe them.
ARTHUR HELPS
Thoughts in the Cloister and the Crowd
Now, as Nature made every man with a nose and eyes of his own, she gave him a character of his own too; and yet we, O foolish race! must try our very best to ape some one or two of our neighbours, whose ideas fit us no more than their breeches! It is the study of nature, surely, that provits us, and not of these imitations of her. A man, as a man, from a dustman up to Aeschylus, is God's work, and good to read, as all works of Nature are: but the silly animal is never content; is ever trying to fit itself into another shape; wants to deny its own identity, and has not the courage to utter its own thoughts.
WILLIAM MAKEPEACE THACKERAY
Extracts from the Writings of W. M. Thackeray
Character is what a person is in the dark.
GRENVILLE KLEISER
Dictionary of Proverbs
Character is like stock in trade; the more of it a man possesses, the greater his facilities for making additions to it.
TRYON EDWARDS
A Dictionary of Thoughts
Character, like porcelain-ware, must be painted before it is glazed. There can be no change of color after it is burned in.
HENRY WARD BEECHER
Proverbs from Plymouth Pulpit
One who stultifies his own character in desperate attempts to please everybody is called a "Gentleman."
ABRAHAM MILLER
Unmoral Maxims
And so it becomes perfectly clear that in the heavenly country, where all character is like a crystal sea, everybody can see to the bottom of everybody, and everybody finds delight in the transparency, because in that country there is unlimited human communion, and no one harbors anything which he wants to have concealed.
DR. JOWETT
Continent, January 4, 1917
The tragedies of most of our modern poets fail in the rendering of character; and of poets in general this is often true.
ARISTOTLE
Poetics
Deeds, not words, are the demonstration and test of character.
WILLIAM ARCHER
Play-making: A Manual of Craftsmanship
Men love to contradict their general character. Thus a man is of a gloomy and suspicious temperament, is deemed by all morose, and ere long finds out the general opinion. He then suddenly deviates into some occasional acts of courtesy. Why? Not because he ought, not because his nature is changed; but because he dislikes being thoroughly understood. He will not be the thing whose behaviour on any occasion the most careless prophet can with certainty foretell.
ARTHUR HELPS
Thoughts in the Cloister and the Crowd
It is an error to suppose that no man understands his own character. Most persons know even their failings very well, only they persist in giving them names different from those usually assigned by the rest of the world; and they compensate for this mistake by naming, at first sight, with singular accuracy, those very same failings in others.
ARTHUR HELPS
Thoughts in the Cloister and the Crowd
Character is largely the result of the kind and quality of seed-thoughts one entertains in consciousness and transmits to the subconscious mind.
WALTER MATTHEWS
Human Life from Many Angles
We become familiar with the outsides of men, as with the outsides of houses, and think we know them, while we are ignorant of so much that is passing within them.
CHRISTIAN NESTELL BOVEE
Intuitions and Summaries of Thought
Concerning character, we sometimes judge of the whole by its parts.
NORMAN MACDONALD
Maxims and Moral Reflections
It is quite impossible to understand the character of a person from one action, however striking that action may be.
ARTHUR HELPS
Thoughts in the Cloister and the Crowd
Judge talent at its best and character at its worst.
LORD ACTON
The Study of History
How often we hear persons say, he or she is a bad character, or a good character, without their knowing anything about the person so spoken of. Many a scoundrel has left his situation with the best of characters, and many a good man has left his without one at all. Anyone who really knows anything of the British army must be aware that they are not all saints that wear the "good conduct medal" in it, and many a good soldier has been discharged without a character. How unfit we all are, as a rule, to form an unprejudiced opinion of the good qualities or vice versa of our fellow men, every philosopher at any rate must be aware, and how much we all take our colour from surroundings, and are the creatures of circumstances, everyone who has studied human nature, and the history of civilisation, must have had brought clearly before his perception. There is now in human nature, born in it, a rather larger amoung of evil than good, and the thoughts of men as a rule are, I fear, oftener bad than good, but if, when persons have the fortune, at a very early age, to be well trained and brought up, and all their habits and surroundings lead on the right road, they have a much better chance of growing up what people call outwardly good characters, but God alone knows if they are clean or unclean within. If, on the other hand, they are born, nursed, and reared in an atmosphere of wickedness, how can they grow up outwardly good; yet many of these outward sinners are perhaps the best of the two characters, for within their bosoms there may be a perpetual yearning to be good and do good, but they are so weak and wicked from habit they do not know how to start, and they do not know what prayer means. The growth of character then, as a rule, must be gradual, built up, and strengthened by quietly striving to do one's duty as a Christian, and daily, and perhaps hourly, asking for renewed and increased strength at the Throne of grace. Feel then for fallen humanity, and look to your own character, as most likely it requires perpetual watching.
T. AUGUSTUS FORBES LEITH
Short Essays